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Mathew Oluwaseun
University of Ilorin (Unilorin)
Mechanical Engineering
500Level, Nigeria.

We all want a relationship where we can be friends with our partners and have them around us. However, getting too clingy might put you at a risk of losing your partners.

Below are some tips to know if you are too clingy in your relationship:

You assume the worst
It can be nerve-cracking when you do not hear from your partner, however, this should not get you so worked up you start assuming the worst. Remember, if a person loves you, they will always reach out to you. Know your partner will get back to you when the time is right. However, if they are always too busy to reach out, you might take the hint.

You get mad when they are out without you
When you nag at them for not going out with you all the time, then you might be clingy. Remember your partners have their friends before they met you, so, they need to have time for other people apart from you. Your partner probably doesn’t mind that you spend time with your friends, so there’s no reason for you to get upset when they do the same. It might get rocky if you keep complaining about your partner going out with other friends.

You keep prying
You will put your relationship on a rocky plane if you keep prying into your partner’s life. You keep asking who they are on calls with or chatting with or every step they take. Your partners are adults, therefore, if there are information they think you should know about, they will definitely inform you.

Your life revolves around them
As much as you enjoy being with your partner, your relationship shouldn’t cancel out the rest of your social calendar. When this happens, your friends may soon start to disappear. Becoming socially isolated is never a good thing. What if you and your partner have a fight? Who will you talk to? You schedule time for your partner, so make sure to do the same with the other people you care about, too.

Being too clingy can end your relationship, so, you should work on it.

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