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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION AND MANAGEMENT
Graduate, Nigeria.
s*x is amazing. Like ice cream, it’s one of those things that all women should have with literally whomever (or toppings) they want. But sex with an ex? *Insert Warning Sign Here*

Is an ex an ex for a reason? Most definitely. But that doesn’t necessarily mean you can’t ever have sex with them again. Foolin’ around with someone you once had feelings for can make things messy, although there can be some good things that can come from it too.

We spoke with experts to dissect every little thing you’re wondering about going down this slippery slope—from what warning signs to look out for to how you can move on from an ex post-sex.

@)Why might having sex with an ex be a good thing?

1. FWB, that you?

Hello , meet the dude who already knows your body, knows what makes you tick, and knows what can turn you on for a five-minute quickie. If you can forget the baggage and still have a friendship or mutual respect for each other, voilà.
“This can help each of you to have a sexual partner you know and trust, especially if you’re not ready to start a new relationship,” says certified sex therapist Rhoda Lipscomb, PhD.

2. It could provide closure.

“One last hurrah could seal the deal,” clinical psychologist says Dara Bushman, PhD. It’s passionate, intense, and gives you one last dip of that queso before you go on Whole 30.

3. You trust them.

Maybe a one night stand isn’t your thing and you’re getting real tired of touching yourself—we hear you, girl. So sexing with someone you already are comfortable with can be rewarding.

“There’s a level of comfort and trust from your history that may not be present with a new partner,” says sex and relationship expert Megan Stubbs.

#)Why might having sex with an ex be a bad thing?

1. It may prolong your bond.

Scientifically, the chemicals that get released during and after sex bond you together, says Rachel Wright, cofounder of Wright Wellness Center. “Oxytocin lasts longer in a woman’s body than in a man’s, so females may feel the deep attachment begin to form again, while it might not for a man,” says Wright. This could leave things, erm, a bit messy.

2. You are hoping to change your situation.

Fact: Sleeping with someone is not going to make them suddenly want to get back together with you. “When one partner has moved on from the relationship and the other has not, returning for sex can create an unreasonable optimism in the less-healed partner,” says sex therapist

3. They are hoping to change the situation.

“Continuing to have sex with them will only give them more reasons to keep trying and to guilt you into giving them another chance,” says Lipscomb. Doin' the deed might feel good in the moment, but leading on someone you used to care about will not.

4. You have a harder time moving on.

“Sex interferes with the process of moving on,” says clinical psychologist
Mark Sharp, PhD. “Sex with your ex extends the time you are emotionally unavailable for a new relationship.”

Source www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/a27423740/sex-with-ex/
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