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Osorhor Ogenevwegba Michael
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Whether you realize it or not every time you interact with a girl whether you just met her or whether you’re in a blossoming relationship the girl will constantly TEST you.

This “testing” is part of the process of “creating attraction” that we men go through in the dating game. It comes with the package.

So if you want to succeed in the dating game, you have to learn how to pass a girl’s tests.
In this article, you will learn what “testing” is, and how girls test you

You’ll also learn how to COUNTER those tests, so that you come out of them more attractive than before.
First, we’ll go over why a girl tests you.

A girl might test you when she has doubts about your character.

Maybe you were acting one way before, but today you seem really confident. If she feels that your confidence might be a bit exaggerated, she will throw
out a test to see if you’re “for real.”

Other times, a girl will use a test to see if you are a certain type of guy
she DOESN’T want, so that she doesn’t WASTE TIME with you. This is why it’s important to know what you’re doing and avoid accidentally failing her tests.

Using tests is an efficient way for her MIND and INTUITION to figure you out and “feel out” your qualities. You’ll soon see why.

Here are three reasons a girl will test you, along with ways to PASS those tests
and emerge victorious on the other side.

3 Specific Reasons A Girl Will Test You

Reason #1 Girls Test You: You’re Putting a “Nice Guy” Act
When a girl senses you’re not being yourself around her and that you’re putting a “nice guy act”

…she’s going to test you.
Her “ALERTS” will go up, and this will make her wonder “is he trying too hard to be nice a guy just for me?”

When she thinks you are being extra nice to her, she will feel something about you is disingenuous. So she will test you to see if you’re being nice
because of who you are or because you are using it as an angle to get into her pants.
Her RADAR detects this as possibly manipulative, and she throws out a test.​

The problem with this nice guy act is that it doesn’t work anyways. If the nice guy act was effective at attracting girls, every nice guy would have hot girlfriend by now instead of being lonely
at home whining about how the “Jerks” steal all their girls
away.

This brings us to…
Why Girls Feel Attraction Towards “Bad Boys”

Now a lot of guys wonder: Why does it seem
like women like bad boys? And the reason is that bad boys PASS her tests.

The reason “bad boys” pass their tests, is that they’re
not trying to impress her and they’re a lot more HONEST with their actions.

A lot of guys often say “I don’t wana act like an
asshole” but what they don’t realize is that by being the nice guy, they’re actually “acting” and being “DISHONEST” while the “bad boy” is actually being real and passing the girl’s test.

BOTTOM LINE: it’s NOT a bad boy being a “jerk” that
triggers attraction in a woman …it’s the way he isn’t
trying too hard and being more honest with his character
that triggers the attraction.

Reason #2 Girls Test You: To See if You Will Get Clingy or Needy After Hooking Up With You
One of a girl’s top worries is that she’ll go out with a guy who then gets SUPER NEEDY afterwards.

If you go out and ask an attractive girl about this, she will probably give you “dating horror stories” of guys who got clingy on her…

Because of these past experiences, she DEFINITELY wants to avoid having another “clingy” or “stalker” problem… so she will test you as a mechanism to see if you will be that kind of guy who will give
her DRAMA and waste her time.
If you give off the vibe that makes her think

you will get needy after going on a date with her,you will FAIL the test and her attraction will plummet.And trust me, you DON’T want to be “that guy” who’s giving girls
these HORRIFIC needy experiences.
Here’s a Tactic to Pass Her “Are You Needy?” Test

One of the best things you can do with a girl is to joke around that SHE is the one who will get needy.

For example, tell her you HOPE she’s not one of those “stalker” girls that will call you 7 times a day.

By bringing this up, you indirectly suggest that
you’re not that kind of guy and you preemptively PASS her TEST.
The result is that

1. Diffuse her worries, and

2. you demonstrate social intelligence

Reason #3 Girls Test You: You Seem “Too Cool” Almost all guys inevitably go through a phase where they act a bit too cool and confident… and to a girl it can feel fake, and makes her test you even more.

When you send a “signal” to a woman that maybe you’re acting too confident, she will test
you to see if you’re for REAL.
This might happen when she senses that your “character” is bolder, or funnier than before.
She wants to see if you can always HOLD that frame.
…or if you’re just talking game, without backing that talk.

Source championsofmen.com/3-weird-ways-girls-test-you-heres-how-to-keep-a-girl-interested-in-you-when-she-tests-you/
3 Weird Ways Girls Test You – Here’s How To Keep A Girl Interested In You When She Tests You - Relationships/Romance

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