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Hello,

Please hide my identity. I am not happy and I feel like I have entered on chance in my life. It started like this: two years ago, I was travelling from Benin to Warri. I met a young girl in the bus. I tried to chat with her but she seemed very shy. But she left me her number.

I called her later and we chatted for some weeks ...she wanted to know my intentions towards her. I told her friendship that will lead to marriage. She agreed.

We started dating. I found out she was in final year of her HND program.

Things were going fine. I liked her alot. Very calm and very reserved. Just before the end of 2019, around October, she finished her program and told me she was coming back home. I was happy.

When she returned, she packed her things and came to my place.
I was surprised. I asked her why she moved into my place cos I never discussed her moving in with me before marriage.

She said, her mother said to her that she must not graduate and come back to her house. That it was always her plan to graduate and go to her husband's house.

Mind you, we have only dated for like 7 months. My plan was that we will get married after...



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