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Good day,

I have evidences that my husband of 11 years is having extra marital affairs. It hurts. I first discovered in march 2019 with a lady on our street in the estate we stay. I asked him then but it got all messy and I experienced domestic violence with him.

People (families on both sides) intervened then, but to my shock, I was told :you don't ask a man why he was cheating ...its normal in this part of the world! that i should just face the care for my children and make myself happy with them.

Since then, I tried to manage information I have about him still cheating on me with other women. In fact, I am advised to look away anytime he goes on the supposed adventures, I was told its mid-life crisis that I should keep praying for him. I am trying to but, it is not easy for me.

I am beginning to think of considering a friend to be intimate with as well. He has been there all through this experience. He is still there, but I......


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