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Hello ma,

Please post this for me on the group for their advice. Its for my friend,lets call him Kay. Kay and I have been friends since university days and we have been close since then. He was my best man when I got married and I was his when he got married. However,his marriage broke down 3 years ago after several fights with his ex wife.

They were just very toxic for each other. Mainly because the wife was not ready to be submissive. Everyone tried to settle them but it didn’t work out. My friend was single until last year when he met a nice lady from my wife’s office. Lets call her Ebun. Ebun is a nice Christian girl and we all thought she was best suited for Kay.

Their relationship was based off on no s*x before marriage. Kay was happy because Ebun is a 100% wife material:kind,domestic,pretty (infact,very pretty),hard working and very godly. They got married In December last year. It turns out that Ebun was a virgin and she never told Kay.

According to Kay,Ebun is a 33 year old virgin but she kept it a secret from him because she was shy. But that is not the problem. The problem was that,Ebun complained that Kay’s manhood was too big and he could not penetrate on their wedding night. Well,,Kay felt it was just her being afraid because she was a virgin.

But the problem continued. Every time he tried to make love to his wife,she would be crying in pain. This continued for the first month of their marriage. Kay became frustrated as he had not been able to make love to his new wife for over one month after marriage.

Unfortunately,Kay got really upset one day and....

Source: livelystones.ng/2020/07/13/his-wife-refused-to-come-back-he-is-loosing-patience-please-advise/