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Osorhor Ogenevwegba Michael
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
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It can be a very heartbreaking experience to know that the person that you love most in the world has been unfaithful and disloyal to you. It can still be heartbreaking even when you are able to see the signs early on. You might have been suspecting them for a while now and when the truth comes out into the open, it can still be very painful. But at the very least, you are given the opportunity to brace yourself for the emotional onslaught that is to come. It always hurts more whenever you don’t get to see the betrayal coming. The shock factor of it all adds a whole new dimension of pain and sorrow.

When you first get into a relationship with someone, you are essentially going to have to open yourself up to another person. You have to make yourself more vulnerable somewhat and sometimes, that means opening yourself up to the risk of getting hurt. That’s something that you’re going to have to do if you want to fall in love. And alas, the more invested you become in a relationship, the more painful it is when the romance fails. And make no mistake about it, infidelity is definitely one of the most common causes for failures in relationships.

It’s going to be painful to know that the person who you think loves you actually has the audacity to betray you. But you will be able to save some of your pride and dignity by being able to fish out the signs of their infidelity for yourself. You might have a few nagging feelings inside of you that are telling you that something is off with your partner. And you always have to be listening to your intuition. You need to trust your gut and your instincts. They are there to protect you when you aren’t paying too much attention to your relationship. There are a few signs that you need to be on the lookout for whenever you think that something is weird in your relationship. But at he end of the day, you would never want to be a total cynic in your romance. You would always want to believe that your partner is doing right by you. But you shouldn’t take that as an excuse for you to be absent-minded either. You still want to be staying on top of the goings on in your relationship.

And if you find that a lot of the red flags actually apply to your partner, then the best thing for you to do first would be to approach your partner in a calm and mature manner. You don’t want to be too hysterical or confrontational. If they decide to own up to their infidelity, then you have some closure on that matter and you can decide how you want to move forward. You will be able to choose what happens in your relationship.

You might think that since men are notorious cheaters and they have been that way for quite some time now, they would probably know how to come up with better excuses to hide their infidelity. But that isn’t necessarily the case. Men are still pretty much idiots when it comes to thinking of excuses. And if you want to know what the common excuses are, then you’ve definitely come to the right place. Has your man ever used these excuses on you before?

He might be working late. Or he might not. However, you have to consider it really fishy for him to be working multiple late nights in consecutive weeks.

This is a common tactic that a lot of guys use to make their women feel unwelcome to their escapades. A “night out with the boys” means that he has to go out and you’re not invited. So, you don’t get a chance to keep your eye on him.

This is a common tactic that a lot of guys use to get away from their women for more than a span of 2 days. He says that he has a business trip that he needs to attend to. But the truth is that he just wants some alone time with his side chick.

This is another way he can make sure that you don’t feel welcome to wherever he is going. He claims that he has an office function to attend to. And since you’re not part of the office, you’re not invited to wherever he might be sneaking off to.

The gym is a common excuse that men will use to just get out of your hair for a bit. This is especially effective if they know that you’re not the type of girl who would want to tag along to the gym with them.

Source www.infolife.space/2019/01/30/the-top-5-common-excuses-that-men-use-when-they-cheat/
The Top 5 Common  Excuses That Men Use When They Cheat - Relationships/Romance

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