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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
Marriage is actually a kind of contract, a contract based on mutual trust and love.
Because humans have never been trustworthy, (that's Why we need religions and laws) but that doesn't mean, no person on the planet is not even a bit trustworthy, there are a lot of good people out there, but alongside them are those inhuman kind, and we don't know who to trust, therefore for every kind of deal we need lawful agreements and witnesses, and same goes for marriage.
But for relationships to work we can't rely solely on agreements and paperwork, but love and trust is also necessary for relationships to go well, therefore a man needs to choose a wife, who :

1. Has Good Moral and Character

Morality has a lot to do with relationships, if you marry a woman who uses abusive language, doesn't know how to talk, or values her dress more than you, you are gonna blame yourself for marrying her all of your life.

2.  Is Trustworthy

If she is not so, you know the consequences.

3. Is Happiness Endorsing

A woman who always sees the negative side of everything happening in your life, is gonna immerse you in depression and anxiety all the time. So it's important for you to choose the right one.

4. Knows the Importance of Relationships

If you marry a girl who doesn't know the importance of relationships, she is definitely gonna mess it up

5. Belongs to Much Higher Class/Society than You

In moral sense, there's nothing wrong with marrying a girl of higher status, 
But in facts, it creates a lot of problems in later life.

6. Is Materialistic

Love for money and materials is root of all evil in the world, a lot of people don't agree with this part, that's their own point of view, but I can prove it psychologically, historically and scientifically.

7. Is a Lier

Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) once said,"Guarantee me of what is between your two legs (your private parts), and what is between your two jaws ( your tongue), I guarantee you ofJannah"
One who is capable of keeping his tongue in control is more likely to control his other evil greed.

8. Is Ultra Fashioned

Psychologically speaking, being ultra fashioned, decreases the sense of respect for others

9. Is After (Other) Men

These kind of girls never stay happy with their husbands and go for sex(zinah) outside their marital bond.

10. Doesn't Respect Her Parents

A girl who doesn't respect her parents, can never respect other people, including her husband.

Source www.findlifeways.tk/2019/01/before-you-get-wife-you-need-to-know.html?m=1
Men! Considered These 10 Things Before Marrying Her  - Relationships/Romance

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