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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
BUSINESS ADMINISTRATION AND MANAGEMENT
Graduate, Nigeria.
1. Alpha Posture
The first and most important thing when it comes to body language is having a good posture whether you are standing or sitting.

Now the question is what’s a good posture? Imagine that your head is connected to a string. Your arms are comfortable on your side. Your focus is on the horizon. This is the natural posture. You will develop it after some practice. Keep in mind, everything taught here, must be done in a habitual manner for it to take effect in your life.

This position sub communicates that you are comfortable, relax, and so on… This posture also communicates positive things about you.

Avoid rigid or hunched posture. An alpha male is always relaxed, whether he is standing or sitting. Loosen up and spread out.

When standing, you can force open your body language by hooking your thumbs in your back pockets. Or you can put your hands on your waist like superman.

Always keep your chin up and your eyes high at all times.

Now same goes with alpha walk. Never make the mistake of walking only with your legs. Don’t be afraid to move your torso and arms. Walk as if you’d just had a massive success and felt on top of the world.

Watch what you do with your body. You may find yourself moving your arms along with your shoulders and having a slight bounce in your step. Now, do that all the time.

Slow down your walking pace. You’re not in a hurry! Never walk fast as part of your normal walk. Instead, walk a little slower than normal, almost as if you’re swaggering. You’re an alpha, no one’s chasing you and you’re not rushing to please anyone else. Walk like you’re relaxed and confident.

2. Laser Eye Contact
Never Look down. An alpha man always holds his head high. It shows zest. It shows enthusiasm. It shows high quality of life. Looking down at the floor interprets “loser.” Keep your chin up. Look at the person you’re talking to. An alpha male isn’t afraid to look directly into people’s eyes. It can be difficult if you’re not used to it, so practice.

When you’re entering the room keep your head high and look at everyone. If you talk to someone, look from one of their eyes to the other, then down to their mouth. This keeps your eyes moving and focused on your conversation partner.

Never shift your eyes back and forth when you speak. That’s a very negative sign. When you’re in a conversation and you’re doing the talking, gaze at the other person’s face. Non-verbally, this communicates that what you say is important and worth listening to and of course you are not hiding anything.

But remember not to over do it. Ignore the dating advice books that tell you to hold non-stop eye contact. Non-stop eye contact makes you look needy, socially retarded, and, frankly, like a weirdo.

If you never break eye contact with someone, they may perceive you as awkward or confrontational. Be sure to take breaks by looking away from time to time. Since looking down can make you seem secretive or week, turn your gaze to the side instead. Never hold too much eye contact when the other person speaks.

Avoid blinking a lot, instead blink your eyes slowly. Don’t close your eyes in discomfort. Just let your eyelids relax. In fact, let them drop a bit. Don’t be bug-eyed. Never be uncomfortable with your eyes. The bottom line is that your eyes should be comfortable, relaxed, assertive, and sexual.

3. Open Gestures
An alpha male spreads his arms and legs out and is open. He takes his space while sitting or standing.

Gestures can show people you’re competent. Don’t be afraid to show people what you’re referring to or use your hands to communicate with them. People feel as though you’re personable and know what you’re talking about when they see how comfortable you are with your gestures.

Exaggerating your gestures can imply that you’re stretching the truth. Spreading your arms apart or gesturing with your palms exposed communicates that you have nothing to hide.

Never hold your hands in front of you. This is a defensive gesture. Instead hold yourself open and vulnerable. You hold yourself vulnerable because you feel no fear. Let your arms relax and be open. Nobody’s going to punch you, so why do you need to block yourself.

On rare occasions it is possible to fold your arms in an alpha fashion, but as a general rule, avoid it.

Never turn your head fast when someone wants your attention. Instead use the movements that you would when you’re at home slow and relaxed. Cause being relaxed and poised is the first and foremost thing of an alpha male body language.

While speaking use your hands to demonstrate that you are all in for that topic and you have nothing to hide. This shows your likeliness with the people you interact while talking.

Which makes you even more powerful and charismatic and If you want to dig deep about unbeatable charisma and becoming more influential feel free to check the article here. [ As I’ve put that content over years of experience ].

4. Alpha Voice
An alpha male has a relaxed face and mouth because he fears no one. He doesn’t speak with a monotonous voice which is also known as mumbling. People with a narrow pitch range are viewed as unassertive, uninteresting, and lacking in confidence. So vary your pitch and you will be perceived as outgoing and alpha.

Using “ah” and “um,” partial sentences, and partial words shows lack of confidence. It’s a sign of nervousness. The reason we say “um” is because we’re afraid we’re going to be interrupted by the other person.

Instead, don’t be afraid to pause for effect. Pausing before important points will make you seem more competent and people will remember what you say. Nervous facial gestures such as lip licking, pursing your lips, twitching your nose, and biting your lips are considered not to be bright and positive.

Avoid speaking too fast. This gives off the impression that you feel anxious and have low self-confidence. A normal, comfortable speaking rate varies within a moderate range from 125 to 150 words per minute.

Never pause too long before responding to a question. This indicates that you’re thinking too hard for your answer, which makes you seem indecisive. It also looks like you’re trying too hard to win the other person’s approval.

Avoid excessive smiling. Never be too giggly. Beta humans smile to show they’re not a threat. The alpha male only smile when there is something to smile about. And yes he can be a threat

Use long, convoluted sentences. Alphas keep it short and to the point. If you’re tempted to use long sentences, break them up. And hey if you want to develop a deep, clear and the Masculine voice check this article. This is especially focused on developing the best voice of your life.

5. Alpha Touch
Don’t touch your face when you talk. This indicates that you’re thinking too hard, you’re indecisive, or that you feel shy. Don’t be afraid to touch women. Do it without being intrusive or apologetic about it.

When it comes to women, alpha male touch women without being apologetic about it. They find ways to touch women with so much confidence that it becomes natural and easy for women.

When he touches a woman, no one feels the embarrassment. Cause everything is free flowing with love and tenderness.

Be confident about it when you touch women any nervousness at all can be fatal for your relations with her. Be alpha and physically move her when you need to. Hold her hand to lead her around, etc. Be gentle if you use excessive pressure, you reveal your insecurity.

(Since you’re alpha, of course she will follow you, so there’s no need to be anything other than playful and tender.)

It’s natural to touch others, as when you’re emphasizing a point. Let the love flow!

So what are the best places to touch a woman? The best places are the back, elbows, shoulders and the back of the arms. Think of it in degrees of sensitivity. The least sensitive parts of the body can be touched first, while the most sensitive, like the breasts for example, are touched last.

While saying something, you can try touching her shoulder for a few seconds, while looking in her eyes and smiling, transmitting that you’re confident about what you’re doing. This is very important you’ve to be confident about your touch while touching her, any sign of weakness or awkwardness can lead it to other way. She might squeeze back and go from there. So the bottom line is to be confident about your touch.

Source www.youralphadude.com/body-language-of-an-alpha-male/

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