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Rufai Oladimeji
Lagos State University
100Level, Nigeria.

My question is I know of someone [female]
who thinks something happened with her
husband at work. He has changed with her,
he doesn't touch her or sleep with her. She
knows 99% that something happened as he
works in Kafir woman's homes and they
wonder around almost naked in their houses.
My friend confronted her husband but he
didn't tell her anything. My question is, is it
her right in Islam to know what happened
with him at work. And if he doesn't tell her
can she call his job to ask about what
happened for they would know if something
happened. She has so many doubts about
him now. What advise do you give this sister
and is it Halaal for a Muslim man to work in
the homes of these woman.

All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord of the
Worlds. I testify that there is none worthy of
worship except Allah, and that Muhammad
is His Slave and Messenger.

There is no harm for this woman to
investigate and find out what happened to
her husband either by asking him directly or
by asking other people about him if this does
not result in a forbidden matter like being
suspicious about him and the like. In
principle a Muslim is innocent and we should
think good of him/her. Al-Hasan Al-Basri ,
may Allah have mercy on him, said: ‘ A
believer looks for excuses [for his brothers]
but a hypocrite looks for (their) lapses. ’
Therefore, we advise her to invoke Allah
earnestly to rectify her husband and if she is
pretty sure that some magic is done to him,
then she should advise him to perform
Ruqyah or he should go to a person who is
known to be righteous and has a correct
belief to perform Ruqyah on him. There is no
harm also for her to perform Ruqyah on

Besides, it is forbidden for a man to work in
a place where there are naked women around
specially that they are disbelievers in this
case and they would not hesitate to commit
adultery or fornication with him. Thus, he
should be advised to abandon working in
these places. His change towards his wife
could be a punishment for doing this
forbidden work. Indeed a person may
encounter many calamities as a result of his
sins. Allah Says (what means): {And whatever
strikes you of disaster, it is for what your
hands have earned; but He pardons much. }
[Quran 42:30].

So, this woman should be patient with her
husband as much as possible, but if the
marital relationship with him worsens and
she fears any harm on herself (i.e.
committing adultery), then there is no harm
for her to take the matter to the institutions
which deal with personal matters of Muslims,
like Islamic centres so that they would study
the matter and relieve her from the harm
afflicted upon her.

Allah Knows best.


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