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Rufai Oladimeji
Lagos State University
100Level, Nigeria.

assalam alaikum.i am a medical student
and alhamdulillah Allah has bestowed
me with a hard working spirit and a
good understanding of the material.i
stay in the female hostel(sakan)of the
university.because i do well,many
students want assistance from me,and
since our course is so
stressful,sometimes its so hard for me
to help everyone since our course is so
stressful.then if i just keep helping,i will
be backward on my studies,bear in
mind that the other students want to be
taught a whole lecture or two for
example(some also want to know all
about my ways of studyng in hasad
perespective).when i come back from
college to my room and i am tired,i
dont open the door to anyone or pick
up the room phone. and people dislike
my habit,but i need time for
myself,some privacy and i need to rest
also and to study.some people come to
the room just to waste my time also so i
dont open the door,by doing this am i
sinning?and if i cant offer help all the
time is Allah going to punish me for
this?jazakumullah khair.please answer
me as soon as you can,ths matter really
stresse me alot .


All perfect praise be to Allah, The Lord
of the Worlds. I testify that there is
none worthy of worship except Allah,
and that Muhammad is His slave
and Messenger.

It is permissible for you not to receive
your female classmates especially if you
know that welcoming them and teaching
them will cause degradation in your
educational level. Also, you are not
sinful, Allah willing, for refusing to help
them every time they ask you to do so.
However, you should not totally stop
helping them as the Prophet said:
"Allah helps a person as long as he
helps his fellow Muslim." He also
said: “Any favour one does is
(considered as) charity.”

Therefore, you should not totally close
this door and you should not totally
open it. You should be moderate
between the two.

Finally, we advise you to be keen on
performing acts of obedience to Allah
and perform your religious obligations
and befriend righteous female believers.

You should stay away from bad female
companions as they may corrupt the
affairs of a Muslim in regard to her
worldly life and her Hereafter.

Allah Knows best.


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