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Rufai Oladimeji
, Nigeria.
Question

What is the reward of a righteous
wife for her religious commitment
before Allah, if she tries to make
her husband happy, loves him, helps
him remain chaste, takes care of
him and treats him as if he is her
child with all compassion, and she
does everything to make him happy,
and obeys him in all things, and he
is very happy with her, and always
prays that Allah will be pleased with
her?
What is the reward of the man too,
if he treats his wife in a similar
manner?.

Answer

Praise be to Allah.
I ask Allah to preserve the love and
happiness between you, and to fill
the houses of all Muslims with that
which has filled your house of good
companionship and kind treatment.
I give you many glad tidings of
which our Prophet Muhammad
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) spoke when explaining
the reward of the wife who is as you
described:
It was narrated from ‘Abd al-
Rahman ibn ‘Awf (may Allah be
pleased with him) that the
Messenger of Allah (peace and
blessings of Allah be upon him) said:
“If a woman does her five (daily
prayers), fasts her month
(Ramadan), guards her chastity and
obeys her husband, it will be said to
her: Enter whichever of the gates of
Paradise you want.”
Narrated by Ahmad (1/191). The
editors of al-Musnad said: It is
hasan li ghayrihi (hasan because of
corroborating evidence). It was
classed as hasan by al-Albani in
Saheeh al-Targheeb (1932).
It was narrated from Anas (may
Allah be pleased with him) that the
Prophet (peace and blessings of
Allah be upon him) said:
“Shall I not tell you about your men
in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O
Messenger of Allah. He said: “The
Prophet will be in Paradise, the
Siddeeq will be in Paradise, the man
who visits his brother who lives far
away and visits him only for the
sake of Allah will be in Paradise.
Shall I not tell you about your
women in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O
Messenger of Allah. He said: “The
loving and fertile one who, if she
gets angry or is mistreated or her
husband gets angry says, ‘Here is
my hand in your hand, I shall not
sleep until you are pleased.’”
Narrated by al-Tabarani in al-
Mu’jam al-Awsat (2/206). It was also
narrated from a number of other
Sahabah, hence it was classed as
hasan by al-Albani in al-Silsilah al-
Saheehah (3380) and in Saheeh al-
Targheeb (1942).
And it was narrated from Husayn
ibn Muhsin (may Allah be pleased
with him) that his paternal aunt
went to the Messenger of Allah
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) concerning some need
and he met her need, then he said:
“Do you have a husband?” She said:
Yes. He said: “How are you with
him?” She said: I do what he tells
me, except what is beyond me. He
said: “Look at how you are with him,
for he is your Paradise and your
Hell.”

Narrated by Ahmad (4/341). The
editors of al-Musnad said: Its isnad
may be understood to be hasan. al-
Mundhiri said: A jayyid (good) isnad.
It was classed as saheeh by al-
Hakim in al-Mustadrak (6/383) and
al-Albani in Saheeh al-Targheeb
(1933).
Al-Manawi said in Fayd al-Qadeer
(3/60):
i.e., he is the cause of your entering
Paradise if he is pleased with you,
and the cause of your entering Hell
if he is displeased with you. So treat
him well and do not disobey his
commands with regard to that
which is not a sin. End quote.
As for the glad tidings which came
to the husband who treats his wife
kindly, it is when the Prophet
(peace and blessings of Allah be
upon him) testified that he had
perfect faith which dictated that he
should enter Paradise, and that he
is superior to all people.
It was narrated from Abu Hurayrah
(may Allah be pleased with him)
that the Messenger of Allah (peace
and blessings of Allaah be upon
him) said:
“The most perfect of the believers
in faith is the one who is best in
attitude, and the best of you is the
one who is best in attitude towards
his womenfolk.”
Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (1162); he
said it is a hasan saheeh hadeeth. It
was classed as saheeh by al-Albani
in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi. Please see
also the answer to question no.
.
And Allah knows best.

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