Welcome, Guest: Join Nigeria Student Forum / Login / Trending Now / Recent

Stats: 17,289 members, 67,839 Topics, 15,187 Comments. Date: May 26 2019, 2:48 pm

Abdulazeez Adeshina
National Open University of Nigeria
Bsc. Economics
200Level, Nigeria.
There’s nothing more disheartening than getting married to someone and realizing you never really know who he was and what he’s capable of.

You must ensure you get your man to show his true colours before tying the knot. How do you do that at a time when men seem very talented at pretending to be one thing and turning out to be another? Well, check out his reactions in these situations.

1. When he is angry

How does he react to anger? You may date someone for years and somehow not see him truly angry. This can be dangerous. You need to know how your man deals with his temper. Does he take his anger out on you, resort to insults or even physical violence? It’s almost impossible to fake his emotions in this situation.

2. When he falls on hard times

A man will show his true colours when he feels inadequate. And one way this happens is when he falls on hard times financially, for example, he lost his job or missed out on a huge business deal. You can get an even more honest reaction if things happen to be going well for you at the same time. If difficult times make him inexplicably mad at you or he suddenly starts accusing you of being unfaithful or maybe he becomes outrightly rude and nasty, you know he will be unreliable during bad times.

3. When things are going surprisingly well

Another time a man will show his true colours is when he suddenly experiences success. It may involve getting a lucrative job or his business becoming very fruitful. You can tell a lot from how a man handles himself here. Does he suddenly feel the need to celebrate with other people that aren’t you? Is he less generous, spiritual or kind than he used to be? Or has being successful brought you guys closer together and he is much more likely to help others.

These scenarios will prepare you for a lifetime with him. You will experience ups and down and there will be times you will upset one another.

These are the times when you will know the person you married. So, getting a glimpse into his character while you’re dating can make you more prepared, or tell you it’s time to run.

Source:- www.zumi.ng/life/show-his-true-colours/amp/

0 Like

Itz Overcomer

Don't have an account? Use the form below to signup for a Nigeria Student Forum Account

Full Name:
Username: E.g Seuncoded
Confirm Password:

I agree to the terms of service

Viewing this topic:
1 guest viewing this topic
Download the Ngstudentforum app for Android Devices

Disclaimer: Every Nigeria Student Forum member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nigeria Student Forum.
- Copyright © 2016 - 2019. All rights reserved.
For enquiries & feedbacks send email to: Ngstudentforum@gmail.com