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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
Most couples face a crisis at some point. Whether it is a long or short relationship, such a situation is never pleasant, and it takes a lot of effort and patience to overcome such situations and conflicts. There are numerous non-spoken tips which can help you preserve the relationship or marriage.

Although when it comes to a crisis, we all go for various solutions and seek advice from close friends and friends, but also it is true that every relationship is unique and requires a different approach. Consequently, it is best to listen to your partner and yourself, and try to find a solution together. The following tips may seem strange at first, but the point is to adopt those that are applicable to your situation and to choose the one that suits you the most.

1. Show emotions
Your partner is the person with whom you should be completely honest, open and express your feelings. Still, many people, especially men, don’t do that. If your partner does not know how you feel, how will he know what it is that you need? Therefore embrace emotions, show them and enjoy your strengthened relationship.

2. Define your relationship
Many people do not feel very comfortable when they need to define the nature of their relationship with someone. Sometimes partners do not have a problem with this. On the other hand, it is not easy for some people. If you have the same problem, you should speak clearly and loudly to your boyfriend to let him know how you feel and what ask him what you can expect of that relationship.

3. Talk about your previous relationship

Although we feel sometimes that this move is a bad idea, the truth is that sometimes talking about your previous experiences can greatly strengthen the relationship of two people. Of course, you do not need to be overwhelmed and talk about the your ex again and again as this may be a sign that you have not overcome this guy and still have feelings for him.

4. Try sleeping in separate beds
When you are in a serious relationship, sleeping in the same bed is something normal. But if you are having problems, there would be nothing wrong with trying to sleep in different beds because in this way, you could increase the passion and the desire for closeness. Also you will start to miss each other and in this way, strengthen your relationship.

5. Enjoy different hobbies and interests
Although many couples share similar interests and enjoy the same things, it does not mean that you don’t have some different interests, too. There is nothing wrong if you start a new hobby because that diversity can be just really good for a relationship. Not only will you be able to exchange different information and interesting things, but you can expand your circle of friends, discover different places and find out a lot of new things, rather than being captured in a circle of everything known and monotonous.

6. Stop having daily conversations about unpleasant topics
Talking about unpleasant topics is not something we want in our daily lives. You need to have fun together, talk about irrelevant stuff, be relaxed when you are together. However, if there is a topic or problem you want to talk about, there is no reason not to do it. By pushing stuff under the carpet, you only prolong your own dissatisfaction, and open conversation is a crucial element of a healthy and stable relationship.

7. Go out with your friends
Even though you are in a good relationship and you are always happy to go out with your partner, sometimes you need to find time for yourself and your friends. Of course, it’s cool to spend time with your partner, but if you’re invited to a party or event in which your boyfriend is not interested, it’s better to go alone or with your friends, rather than creating the problem and forcing him to do something he does not want.

8. Keep some secrets for yourself
It’s very nice when you are so open with your partner that you can share all your secrets with each other. Still, there are secrets we do not want to share with anyone, even with the man we are so much in love with, and that’s quite okay. You may at some point feel the desire and the need to share a secret from the past or something that is troubling you, but if you do not feel that way, you should not do it.

9. Go alone on a holiday
Just like spending time with friends, holidays on your own can be very delightful, and there is nothing wrong with them. Everyone should have space for himself, his needs and relaxation. Why would you always agree to a compromise? After this, you will both be full of new stories, and your relationship will have a different energy which both of you can enjoy.

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