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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
What you say when approaching women does not really matter. The most important thing when approaching women is your confidence level and how you say it. In modern terms “your swag.” Make sure you smile when approaching women. Sound confident by speaking with a louder voice. Enjoy your time and make sure to have fun when approaching women. Do not get stuck on results too much. If you only approach one woman all night be happy about that because you actually attempted it. When you start thinking about results and not the current situation in front of you women will sense this. You will look like a creep and will not be fun.

What To Say When Approaching Women

If you guys are wearing similar clothing such as jean jackets, bomber jackets, or sneakers. Just go up to her and say “Why did you copy my outfit today?” Most likely she will laugh and then you can tell her “you at least could have rocked it better than me.” Statements like this are not very creative but it gets her laughing and you opened her up.

Also, you can switch up your opener. if you have a piece of clothing that most girls do not wear. You can just go up to a random girl and say “I was going to wear that outfit today, you must have read my mind.” This works best if the girl has on a dress or something that guys do not wear. It seems funny because she knows you were not actually going to wear that dress because you are a guy. The main part about clothing opener is that you are supposed to be as funny as possible and just having a good time.

You Approached Her! What Now?

You can ask basic questions such as “how long have you been here?” “Where are you from?” “Do you go school around here?” “What’s your name?” These questions are just to build comfort with her and if you are a beginner these are great conversation topics. When you become more advanced you will be able to start conversations without asking questions. For example: When you ask her name, and she says it. You can response “hmm I have met a couple of (her name) and they were all crazy please do not tell me you are crazy.”

More Example Openers
If you can figure out her nationally by looking at her, the perfect opener would be something such as. “You are African (her nationality) I can tell, let me guess where you are from (take a few guesses of her country).” When saying phrases like this make sure you are very confident and smile while saying this. Most of the time you will guess wrong and sometimes she will give you hints. If you guess right you will immediately put a smile on her face. Then after you open her up you can start a conversation.

Clothing Gets People To Approach You

Wearing conversational pieces of clothing you, people will start approaching you. If you wear a sports team jersey during the playoffs, people will come up to you start talking to about the team. Basketball jerseys cause mainly guys to talk to you but this will help you look more social. Also if they have girls with them you can talk to them also. If you wear baseball or hockey jerseys girls will start talking to you also. A great piece of clothing that gets girls to approach them are shirts with bold statements on them. I wear a God Is Dope Shirt and Black Men Don’t Cheat Shirt.

Important Things To Remember When Approaching Women

Most of the time girls do not go out by themselves. Most women will be found with a group of other girls. So when approaching women do not try and isolate them. You should try and talk to every single girl in her group. This will not only make the friends more comfortable with you, but it will also make you look like a social butterfly.
Tips for when approaching the whole group: If you ask one girl a question you should ask every girl that same question. Smile and joke around with both girls. Become their friends then try and choose which one you want afterward.

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