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1.) THEY ARE SLOWLY GETTING MORE DISTANT

You use to talk all the time and you shared dozens of inside jokes. You loved spending time together and snuggling up close.

Now, they seem distant – emotionally and physically.

They don’t want to cuddle up together anymore and they get annoyed or ignore you when you start to talk about life.

The distance between you feels lonely and cold. You start to wonder if it is something you did.

Unfortunately, it may be something they are currently doing behind your back.

2.) THEY ALWAYS HAVE AN EXCUSE FOR NOT UPDATING THEIR RELATIONSHIP STATUS ONLINE

In today’s society, social media is everything!

That is where people go to find out about someone’s personal life and what they are up to.

Don’t let your significant other trick you into thinking that there isn’t a reason for wanting to hide your relationship to their online friends and followers.

There is always a reason! And it usually has to do with them being a total player.

To the world, they want to look completely single and available – while enjoying the benefits of a committed romantic partner.

Don’t let someone use you like that!

And don’t let anyone convince you that you’re being too sensitive or insecure to want to make your relationship public – everywhere!

3.) THEIR STORIES AREN’T CONSISTENT

The thing about a liar and a cheater is…they often get caught in their own web of lies.

If they consistently lie about where they have been or what they are doing, they will eventually forget what they told you.

Their stories will stop aligning and they will start contradicting themselves with different stories and facts.

If your partner starts consistently asking you if they already told you a story or explained where they were, watch out! They are fact checking with you, to ensure that they don’t get caught in a lie.

4.) THEIR PHONE IS COMPLETELY OFF-LIMITS TO YOU

If you so much as glance at their phone, they turn it away like you are imposing on their privacy.

This includes all their electronic devices – phones, laptops, computers, tablets, etc.

When you are in a committed relationship with someone, you shouldn’t have to be nervous or upset if they use or look at your phone! Eventually, there will be a need for them to use it.

If your partner is guarding their phone in a territorial and nervous way, this gives you full reason to be suspicious of their activities!

You and your partner should feel completely comfortable, sitting side-by-side on your phones and texting in full view of each other.

Several months ago, one of my friend’s fiance became increasingly protective of his cellphone. As their wedding day approached, she became increasingly uncomfortably with his insistence that she not go near his phone. One day, she grabbed his phone, ran into her room and locked the door. After searching through messages and looking through his apps, she found a secret chatroom app where he was talking to other girl’s in the area and meeting up with them behind her back.

Unless your significant other has business information that needs to be kept secure and private or they are planning a surprise for you, they shouldn’t be shielding you from casually seeing what they are doing!

5.) THEY HAVE CHEATED BEFORE

Have you heard the saying, “Once a cheater, always a cheater?”

Unfortunately, this has a significant amount of truth in it!

Statistics have shown that people who have cheated before are 350% more likely to cheat again?

Second chances are wonderful and they can give people an opportunity to show they have changed their ways!

However, the likelihood that they will never cheat again are not too good.

6.) THEY ARE PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO THEIR APPEARANCE

In the highly publicized divorces of many celebrities and politicians, their spouses mentioned that they started to notice that their husband or wife started to pay far more attention to their looks – become more fashionable, losing weight, getting fit, shaving or waxing, etc.

Remember back to the early stages of your relationship, when you wanted to make sure that you looked absolutely perfect!

Your breath had to spell minty fresh, your hair/makeup had to be perfect, and you wanted your body to look as good as possible.

Maybe your significant other is back to those early stages – with someone else!

7.) THEY START ACCUSING YOU OF CHEATING OR BEING UNHAPPY IN THE RELATIONSHIP

Nothing has changed for you! But your significant other starts to get overly jealous and sensitive.

They start blaming you for being the one who is unsatisfied and unfaithful!

What they are doing is trying to justify their own cheating actions and start pinning the blame of your deteriorating relationship on you.

They are also trying to “throw you off their scent” and make it look like they are so anti-cheating that they could never possibly cheat on you.

This way, if they get caught or if they want to break up with you, they can blame it all on you.

8.) THEY BECOME JITTERY ABOUT THEIR FINANCES

If you are in a relationship where you don’t share financial information, this one will be pretty hard to figure out.

But if you have a joint account, you can gain a lot of information from their account activity.

Perhaps they randomly withdraw large chunks of money. Or you notice that their full paycheck isn’t being deposited into the account anymore. (They have created a new, private account that is hidden from you.)

When you ask them questions about it, they are always ready with an excuse!

Everyone needs spending money put into the budget, but when joint money is no longer accounted for, there is a big problem!

9.) YOU’VE GOT A “GUT FEELING”

Sometimes, you’ve got to trust the gut!

You have this feeling that something just isn’t right. Your alarm bells start going off…and you can’t quite put your finger on it. What is the reason?

Maybe they are acting slightly different or the atmosphere of your relationship has shifted.

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