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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
1. Love Yourself More

Most of the time, we love others more than ourselves. Things get worse after breakups, often people just let go themselves, in terms of their family, career, appearance and happiness.

To find the person loves you, you need to love yourself first. Start treating yourself better, do the things you want to do, eat the food you love, surround yourself with beautiful things.
Express your gratitude to all the good things you have in life. Trust me, life will support you as much as you wish. Be thankful in such a situation will help you more than you can imagine.

2. Spend Time With Family

When we are in relationships, we might have less time to spend with our families. Now it’s a great opportunity to spend more time with them. Be open to your family members, let them know your situation and seek support from them.

Let go your ego, it is not a big deal to be back to single. I know many people tried to avoid mentioning it after breakups, you don’t have to force yourself to talk about it.

But you must face and accept it, only then you can start to heal your broken heart.

Remember the longer you are avoiding it, the longer it will haunt on you.

Why not face it? Be courageous, face the situation, it will be tough at the beginning, but after a while, you’ll realize that it is not that difficult to get over.

3. Help Others

Personally, I think this is the best way to heal your pain.

When we are in pain, we often victimize ourselves. It is normal to feel sad and pity. Have the feeling that you are the poorest people in the entire world.

But you know that it’s not sure, especially when you shift your focus on unfortunate people. When you start to help them, you’ll realize that you are not alone! You are actually so much luckier than many of them.

I’m not asking you to find your happiness from those unfortunate people, but when you can have little appreciation of the things you have, you will feel much better.

It is good to divert your focus by helping others. And the sense of satisfaction from helping others will also push you to go further.

Go to the old folks home, orphanages or pets shelter, help, support and share your love with them, you will feel differently.

4. Give Yourself Time

You don’t have to force yourself to be normal immediately. There is no need to do so, as you don’t have to prove yourself to anybody.

None of us can get over a break immediately, it takes time. As we are all emotional creatures, give yourself enough time to grieve over your lost relationship and move on.

Be gentle with yourself, don’t suppress any emotions within you. Release all the emotions by all means! If you want to cry, then cry; if you want to shout, then shout!

Just don’t do anything to hurt yourself. The idea here is to let yourself face the reality, go through the pain and recover bit by bit day by day

5. Work On Yourself

Nobody is perfect, and I don’t demand myself to be perfect either. But I know there are always rooms for improvement. You can work on your body, your mind, your family or your career.

Now it’s a good time for some self-improvement. Read more inspirational books, watch motivational stories, fill your mind with all the positive ideas will help you get over a breakup fast. Continue reading on how to become more irresistible women to men here.

how to get over a breakup fast

Breaking up will never be fine. No one likes to go through the pain. The above tips won’t take away your pain but it provides you with the ideas on how to get over a breakup faster.

Start to apply them in your daily life and you will see changes happen soon.

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