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Michael Osorhor
Delta state polytechnic otefe oghara ( DESPO )
Graduate, Nigeria.
1. Don’t Contact (Call, Text or ‘Drop by’)

This is the chance to be alone. I know, many of us are afraid of being alone; however, it’s not as bad as you thought.

It is normal to feel lonely and emotional after a breakup, but, you must pull yourself together. Instead of being sad and depressed, why not think about your bright future?

Give each other a while to cool down, re-think about the decision you guys had made. Start to plan your own path; after a while, if you guys think you can’t live without each other, then do something to get back together.

But don’t contact or stalk him or her right after a breakup. As it will only produce negative effects. If you feel that you have to talk to him or her, only do as minimal as possible.

2. Don’t Be Resentful

Don’t let the bitterness or anger override your kind personality. Don’t let those negative thoughts take control of your mind to do something you’ll regret in future.

Don’t indulge yourself in such emotions that will kill your next opportunity…

Stop complaining about him or her to your friends, stop making yourself as a victim. Even though you were hurt, being used; learn to let it go. As the longer you hold on these unpleasant experiences, the longer you will have the pain.

If by chance, you see your ex in public, don’t run up to the person and start to whine about his or her mistakes. Instead, be gracious and say a simple “Hello, how are you?“

Trust me, your ex will be so impressed by your gesture and no matter what, always remember to keep your dignity.

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3. Fool Around

It is not wise to just hook up with whoever you can find. While it may make you better at the beginning, as you won’t feel so lonely or you might feel loved again. But it’s just an illusion.

Don’t let it fool you, as it is not a good option to heal your broken heart. Doing this will only ruin the chance for you guys to be back together again

If your ex wants to get back together with you, but when he or she heard about those, how would you expect your ex to react to it? Your ex may think that he or she had made a right decision to leave you!

Even though there is completely no chance for you both to be together anymore, it is also not good for your own. Why do you want to leave people an impression that you are just like that? You are better than that, you deserve the best and you can have the best!

4. Don’t Play Games

I know many people try to make their exes jealous after break up, to revenge or to make themselves feel better.

Such nonsense and a childish act you definitely should avoid. As per our rule #1, you shouldn’t let those emotions make you do something you don’t want to do.

Silly facts are when people are hurt, often they tend to do things to hurt another person to feel less pain.

But in fact, you should know it doesn’t work well as you thought. If you do any stupid acts or play mind games with your ex, even your ex still cares for you, those behaviours will push him away.

If your ex is no longer interested in you, those things will only send the affirmation to your ex that she or he had made a wise decision to leave you!

5. Don’t Indulge In Alcohol

It is an obvious thing you should not do after a breakup. The reason why I would like to highlight here is that I know many people will resort on alcohol a lot after a breakup.

It might work for the few hours, but you still have face the reality when you are sober. Many people use breakups as an excuse to indulge themselves in toxic thoughts and substances; however, you must be careful about this.

I know it’s easier said than done. Being heavily rely on alcohol will not help you get over a breakup, instead, it will damage your body for a long run.

You’ll be more emotional when you are drunk and you will do some wired things out of your control. You might send text messages or make phone calls to complain or share emotional things with your ex, just venting your sadness or pain.

Breakups can never be easy! You need to be strong and mindfully avoid the above mistakes. A breakup is are indeed painful but it’s not the end of the world, it will also create an opportunity for you.

When one window is closed, another one will be open for you.

Let yourself heal through the process, and shift your focus more on the below things you should do instead.

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