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Adefusi Happiness Oluwapelumi
Animal nutrition and biotechnology
200Level, Nigeria.

Be grateful if your partner can make you laugh and feel relaxed.

There are very many ways you can measure the commitment of your partner when in a relationship. What they do and how they treat you speaks a lot more than what they may just say about you; or what they say about the love they have for you.

On most occasions, it may be extremely hard to judge how deeply someone actually loves you. However, there are things they will consistently do that will prove that, indeed, you hold a special place in their heart and you are a key member of their world.

If you find a lover who can actually love you in the way you want and build trust in you, you really have to be grateful that they are in your life. In the modern world, it is not always easy to find that special someone who you can trust fully and not have those shortcomings.

If they can love you unconditionally, make sure that their stay is permanent. Do not let go. Unconditional love is so hard to find. If your partner or your lover is offering that unconditional love, be happy because you are more than just lucky. A partner who is just ready to love you the way you are and not expect anything in return is perhaps the best thing that can ever happen to your life in terms of love and matters the heart. The unconditional love is a platform on which you will bond especially with neither of you having that mild fear of losing the other. Nothing can ever come in between what you stand for. If you find it, be grateful.

It is not always protocol that your partner gives you adequate feedback when you inquire about something or when you want to get their opinion in a certain direction you need to take. How about one who is almost perfect in all these? May prove difficult to find but if they show that they can consistently be there when you need them, you need to count yourself lucky and be very grateful.

Happiness in a relationship will also not be always about what you can buy them or how well you can do what they want; rather, it is also in the way you are persistent in expressing your love. If they are always making you feel loved and always reminding you that you matter, you really ought to be grateful and happy because there are people in rather awkward relationships that are dying to just get their significant other to be close to that. They say happiness is a choice if they choose and are committed to making you happy, now that’s something special, isn’t it?

To succeed and have that intrinsic motivation to just stretch yourself to the limits, you need to have someone who can inspire you to keep pushing beyond what you know of as your best shot. Even in cases of failure, you may be inwardly motivated but it is even more special if the people you are very close to motivate you and help you reach the very top. If such people are close to you, it is even more advantageous. A lover who can motivate and inspire you to achieve your goals and succeed is something to really smile upon and be grateful for.

Being happy at all times is also good for your mental and emotional stability. If you can get someone who has that special sense of humor and always has something hilarious to say that makes you crack in hysterics, you really ought to be grateful.

All these will also depend on how you choose to lead your life. If it is deserving of all the good things in the world, they will come flowing in. if you allow your mind to conspire with your heart to make very terrible mistakes, you will obviously pay the price and lead a nearly miserable life with nothing at all to be grateful for.

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