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It is now a global fact that couple’s sexuality is simply a part of the fabric of living and if couples are not expressing themselves sexually to the maximum due to lack of confidence , they are not living life to the fullest as married lovers . Sex stimulates spouses physically and mentally ; it makes couples healthier . It is a terrific exercise that relieves stress and enhances sleep . It creates a feeling of intimacy ; sex is just too good , clean , delicious and fun .

Lack of confidence makes couples with good intention destroy their relationship just because they shy away from exploring all that sex has to offer. Lack of confidence makes couples believe that hot sex is somehow beyond their reach , or is meant for some privileged couples .

I have discovered that a fantastic sex life begins with confidential thoughts and great attitudes towards sex.
So therefore , it is not only within the power of spouses to have satisfying hot sex, but their responsibilities . Spouses should not wait for the other partner to turn them on, but rather confidently turn their partners on. The more active a couple is in giving and seeking pleasure , the more they think about sex. And the more a partner thinks about sex, the sexier they feel . And the sexier they feel , the better sex both of them will have and the more their confidence grows.

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Let your imagination run wild, savour every moment . Wife , sucking on your husband ’s finger or sucking on your finger seductively is a gateway to teasing him before the ‘ show’ begins . Finger sucking gives you an exhilarating, elating , exciting and ‘be- in- the - mood ’ feeling . Fingers are extremely sensitive and the sensation of having it inside a lover ’s mouth delivers a warm , soft thrill. Open mouth kisses are far sexier that close - lipped peck . Let your husband enjoy the feeling of your hot breath and wet tongue against his skin .

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Pay attention to those areas that are seldom appreciated . Take your husband ’s nipples, each one between your teeth for a gentle bite. Men ’s nipples are not as sensitive as a woman’s, but they still get erect when licked , kissed and bitten . The flesh in- between the penis and the scrotum should be licked as if you are licking an ice cream . The surprise of feeling fingertips , lips or tongue on these sensitive parts will shoot tiny shivers of hot pleasure up the man ’s spine. A man ’s back is very sensitive , it responds well to erotic stimulation . Place lots of lubricant in your palms and rubs the back .

Each time you make love as a couple, let there be an intense connection . For instance, the husband should take control of the action before the time of thrusting by cradling his wife’s head in his hands and whispering sweet words into her ear . This is a sure access into a total rapturous pleasure . Wife , at this stage , you should wrap your arms and legs around your husband ’s body and pull him closer to you for deep penetration . Make sure you match the rhythm of each thrusting with a corresponding lifting of your pelvic to his and let out some stimulating sounds , moaning and seductive sexy words . Holding hands during sex is fantastic . Grasping your spouse ’s hands is also a romantic way for you to provide added support and balance when he or she is moving up and down on top of you.

Seven: Encourage your wife to straddle you on the edge of the bed and give her neck, breasts and nipples plenty of loving attention while you are intertwined . Encourage your wife to put up a show with her breasts by telling her how striking and sexy they are and how much you love watching them move and dance.

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Husband , one of the greatest sex escapades is to allow your wife to take the lead whenever she is on top of you and follow her lead . When she moves down on you firmly to achieve deeper penetration , thrust up slightly and when she is moving quickly or intermittently, stay still and let her have her way . This instruction is particularly good for husbands with small organs . The wife should also keep her body upright to make sure she is not bending the penis in an uncomfortable manner . Just move up and down, with an occasional side - to - side wiggle . Squatting also allows for a greater range of up and down motion. Try rotating your hips in a small circle or moving very slowly from side to side as you raise and lower yourself unto your husband .

Nine :
Climb on your husband as he sits in a chair . Let your legs fall comfortably on either side of his body and grab the back of the chair , using the chair to rock your body back and forth . Sit in such a way to create friction between your clitoris and his abdomen , and simultaneously move his manhood inside your vagina . This is not only erotic , terrific, invigorating , exquisite and fabulous , but also gives room for a full -frontal seduction. This makes you, as the wife, to feel incredibly sexy and this position is fantastic for inducing hot orgasm.

Your husband ’s manhood should always be given undivided attentiveness. Please , as a wife, do not let a day pass without playing with your husband ’s manhood unless on doctor ’s order . Do not nurse the idea that the penis can wear out as a result of too much sex, blow job or foreplay

.In fact , according to researchers, the human penis is stronger , more revitalised , energetic , activated and ecstatic when put to daily use . So, make a ring with your thumb and index finger and slid it up and down over the head and the very top of the shaft ; these are the most sensitive parts of the penis. Wrap your entire hand around the penis for a fuller , slightly less intense; yet, equally enjoyable sensation .

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This twisting motion can be very erotic , revitalising, fulfiling and uninhibitedly passionate that it can lead to premature ejaculation. I always say that what most wives want in bed is a husband who knows how to control the timing of his ejaculation while the penis is on ‘fire and torture ’, so that both spouses will get the maximum pleasure from sex.

One major reason many wives abandon the penis is because their anticipation for sexual escapade and thrill is frustrated , cut short and curtailed by their husbands’ weak erection and erectile dysfunction. But do you know that this can easily be achieved? It is easy to develop complete self- control so that you can actually choose when to ejaculate during sex, cure your weak erection and regain your sexual self- confidence .

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Many husbands enjoy having their prostate gland stimulated during sexual encounter ? Wife, locate the area of the skin directly behind his testicles and push upward with the pads of your fingers or your tongue . In fact , tugging gently on the skin can release some extra ‘oomph ’, ‘hmmm’, ‘yes ’, ‘thank you’, with eyes closed . Stimulate the penis from top to bottom with both fists descending one after the other , so that instead of an up - and- down motion , there is a continual downward stroke .

This is enjoyably glorious . Create a ring around the base of the penis with the thumb and index finger of one hand. Hold it there , squeezing gently, while stroking the rest of the penis with the other hand. This helps to engorge the penis and make ejaculation a full calming, peaceful , reassuring force .

Getting hot and yummy? Well, that is what sex should be between husband and wife. And I would suggest here that wives should never allow tradition and culture to place an embargo on their strife to openly voice out their sexual desire . In lieu of this, over the years, many wives have lost their sexual confidence and libido . What presents itself in a typical marriage is a bed where the woman is only to be seen and not heard. Yet , each time I consult with many husbands, the complaint I receive is that their wives are extremely inactive when it comes to sex, and the cause of this is lack of confidence and grit .

A mind filled with confidence helps turn a timid wife to a sex expert. A confident spirit helps put the hands to action and the hands though , they cannot speak verbally, they can speak volumes by their action.

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Wife, from the moment your husband starts kissing you, you should move for your husband ’s hips , caressing his arms , back , thighs or slide your finger around the nape of his neck. From caressing to grabbing or tender scratching , there are countless ways that you can increase the pleasure by getting your hands involved because those hands are exceptionally gifted .

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