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Nofiu Ridwan
National open university of Nigeria (Noun)
Bsc. Economic
300Level, Nigeria.
I've been dating my current boyfriend for +2yrs now, not really been fortunate with admission ish and God showed mercy this year and I got admitted into the university..

The problem now is, my bf keeps thinking I'm gonna change my attitude soon and roll with bad gangs, he's wired up with a mentality that everyone changes immediately they get to school, I currently have no intention of quitting the relationship, he has done lots of negative things that common sense should've made me quit but love and patience still kept me, I grew up in a ghetto, one that only 1 out of 50 comes out decent, I came out unscathed and untouched, I can swear with anything that I've never cheated on him even when he became a serial cheat and abandoned me, I still held on my patience, I don't know if he's not happy I'm going to school or doesn't want me to go..

I get irritated and really pissed off whenever he talks about drastically changing due to the new environment, there are more people outside the school walls than within, my new school's even in the same town we live in, just because his ex did that doesn't mean I definitely will, I don't know if he sees me as some random lil naive kid, before now, whenever he's talking about a girl of my age who's in school or done with school, he'll put a lot of emphasy on it and that kills me a lot, he indirectly compares me with kids, he treats me like a kid and sees me as a kid, I'm 22 for crying out loud, sometimes, I feel like quitting so he'll go and look for his mates to date cause I think it'd be nice to meet someone who trusts and accords me the respect I deserve..

Is he being insecure or guys are usually like this?


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