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Self Control In A Relationship. by expmercy (f): 4:34pm on November 5
Donatus Mercy
, Nigeria.
He has a hot temper: anytime he gets angry he breaks anything he touches and he hits you with anything he can find. At the slightest provocation he swears at you and says strong things to hurt your feelings without holding back. But after that he goes to KFC and buys you all the chicken wings and chips he can find, then he comes back to apologise with a bottle of wine and a sad face.

I hope you know that there is someone God has prepared for you out there who will get angry and break nothing. Who will loose his mind and not be tempted to lose control of his hands. Who will speak back at you with gentleness and respect even when provoked, and after that, still buy you all the chicken wings and chips at KFC with a bucket of icecream to apologise even when he was not the one at fault.

She fights with her father, keeps malice with her mother, doesn't have a pastor or any spiritual figure in her life because she hates authority, speaks rudely to the waiter at the restaurant, gets abusive with the bus driver over nothing, haven't spoken with her siblings since the disagreement they had years ago. But she loves, respect and submits to you wholeheartedly as her lord.

I hope you know also, that there is someone out there God has prepared for you who will love and honour her parents as commanded by God, love and forgive her siblings as we are told to love one another, show some respect to the waiter, be understanding with the bus driver, have high regards for spiritual authority and mentors over her life, yet still love, respect and submit to you as her lord.

He can go a week without calling, weeks, sometimes a month without texting or reaching out to check how you are doing. No ping, no chat, no DM. He hasn't bought you anything since you met, no surprises whatsoever, then he reappears like a knight in shining armour when it is convenient for him and ask you out on a date to the movies after talking on the phone for five hours.

I hope you know this too, that there is someone God has groomed for you out there who understands the language of communication and giving. Someone who will make calling and checking up on you his priority, DM you, Snapchat you, Instagram you, Spirigram you, suprise you with little presents until your cup runs over, and still take you out to the movies without waiting for Valentine's day.

Listen to me anyone who has a heart, for every GOOD you think you deserve, God has His BEST waiting for you.

But no matter what, do not settle for a WRONG relationship with a touch of RIGHT!
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Re: Self Control In A Relationship. by Overcomer (m): 9:26pm on November 5
Abdulazeez Adeshina
National Open University of Nigeria
Bsc. Economics
200Level, Nigeria.
hmmm...this really makes sense, nice one @expmercy
Itz Overcomer

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