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The Love Assignment For The Week Part 2. by expmercy (f): 4:28pm on November 5
Donatus Mercy
, Nigeria.

You know there are some relationships where aunty cannot call or reach her man anything from 9am in the morning up until about 6pm or 7pm because he is busy at work. Between those hours it feels like she is prohibited from calling or getting in touch with him for any reason at all. If she tries to call he will not answer the phone, and even when he does answer the phone he will not be very responsive, most times he gets really angry at her for calling him within those hours because he expects that she knows he has work to do. So their relationship takes a break within the hours of 9am to 7pm because they each have stuff to do, so awful. This goes both ways with some 'busy with work' aunties too.

What usually happens is that over time he has created an impression that at these times it is impossible for you to call me. So even when you are dying don't call me, even when you need something don't call me, even when you miss me don't call me. This is a wrong place to be for two people who want their relationship and marriage to thrive.

For our love assignment this week we are going to SWITCH! For the next 7days, you are going to love your partner in those times when it feels like it is impossible for you to love them. You are going to love her during those BUSY hours of the day when you have created the impression over time that you will not be there for her. Those very early mornings when you are multitasking and getting ready for work, call her from the bathroom, or call him from the bus. Sneak out of your desk at 1,2,3pm when it looks like the busiest time for you and call her from the restroom, or call him on your lunch break at 2pm. Call at 5,6pm when you are trying to rush out to the bus station to avoid the heavy traffic. At worst send a text with your soul in it if phones are not allowed where you work.

No relationship is permitted to go on break at any time. Even when we are busy with stuff we have to find a way to stay connected to each other. The idea behind this assignment is to be AVAILABLE in those time when it looks impossible. The idea is to show your partner that although you have stuff to do, you are still going to make time for them because all this work would mean nothing if you don't have each other. It shows VALUE. It shows that although your body is working hard to get every cent, your heart is right where your real treasure Is - with your partner.

Source: Allison bisongs

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